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Paternity testing question |
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Posts: 1379 (08/24/09 2:00 PM) Registered User |
A guy I know thinks he has a kid with his ex, but he's never met the kid because the ex took off with the kid as soon as it was born.
He wants to know if he can have a court order a paternity test, and how to go about making this happen. I'm sure some of you people must know about these things. |
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superguppie |
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Posts: 26923 (08/24/09 2:01 PM) Registered user |
Call a lawyer? |
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PassionatePiscesMan |
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Posts: 8468 (08/24/09 2:01 PM) Registered User |
I behave so never have such problems
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VillageIdiot |
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Posts: 1247 (08/24/09 2:01 PM) Registered user |
'zactly
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Eagles CHA Frodo Mt Doom |
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Posts: 158 (08/24/09 2:02 PM) |
you know Miceal Jackson?
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pinkdolphin |
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Posts: 9150 (08/24/09 2:17 PM) Registered User |
Obviously a lawyer could help. But I think it is harder if he is not on the birth certificate.
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Posts: 3066 (08/24/09 2:19 PM) Lost soul |
Call Maury!
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WiscBadger95 |
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Posts: 15148 (08/24/09 2:41 PM) Registered user |
Short answer: He's the father, he needs to pay up.
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Posts: 2701 (08/24/09 2:56 PM) Registered user |
Is he paying Child Support? If so, I would guess that would give him some grounds for demanding the test.
If not, I'm not sure he has much chance. |
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Extremely Stoic |
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Posts: 1120 (08/24/09 3:08 PM) Registered User |
this is a gay men's web site..............they don't even know how to spell paternity much less answer a serious quistion
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Penelope McBagpipe |
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Posts: 10229 (08/24/09 3:10 PM) Geenyus extraordinaire
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Nonentitled wrote: Hiding skin colour is hard. |
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SmrtAss |
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Posts: 7561 (08/24/09 3:12 PM) Lazy ass bitch, please |
Ex-lovah or ex-wife?
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Nonentitled |
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Posts: 1380 (08/24/09 3:53 PM) Registered User |
It was an ex-fiancee. They broke up while she was pregnant. He's not on the birth certificate, and the ex hasn't contacted him for child support, even
though we've heard that she's pretty hard up for cash.
She posted a pic of the kid on Facebook, and it looks JUST like this guy's baby pictures. |
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robbiefan |
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Posts: 4577 (08/24/09 4:31 PM) Registered user |
Are you sure it's a kid? It could be a big block of cheese.
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Nonentitled |
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Posts: 1381 (08/25/09 10:25 AM) Registered User |
Knowing this guy, the cheese theory might not be that far off.
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superguppie |
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Posts: 26931 (08/25/09 11:49 AM) Registered user |
He's not on the birth certificate, and the ex hasn't contacted him for child support, even though we've heard that she's pretty hard up for cash.Why does he want to do a paternity test if the ex is not requesting support? Does he actually want to be involved in the raising of the block of cheese? |
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ilikelissie |
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Posts: 16650 (08/25/09 11:50 AM) Registered user |
Wow....a deadbeat mom.
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superguppie |
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Posts: 26932 (08/25/09 11:54 AM) Registered user |
Every guy's fantasy.
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Nonentitled |
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Posts: 1382 (08/25/09 2:55 PM) Registered User |
Why does he want to do a paternity test if the ex is not requesting support? Does he actually want to be involved in the raising of the block of cheese? Not really. He just wants to know if it's his kid. He's weird like that. |
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Posts: 392 (08/25/09 3:06 PM) |
Well, he may be a moron. He does realize that if she is receiving any kind of state assistance and he is legally determined to be the father, then the STATE
can go after him for support whether she wants it or not? Anyway, if the mom is willing to do the paternity test, they can take a family trip to the local
clinic and have cheek swabs done but they have to pay out of pocket. If mom ISN'T willing, then he has to go through the courts and have one ordered. At
that point, whether the child is his or not, the bill will go to the mother because she was the one refusing. I don't know what state you are in, so this
may vary slightly, but I imagine the process is similar.
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pinkdolphin |
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Posts: 9165 (08/25/09 3:07 PM) Registered User |
Knowledge is very costly, until the kid is 18 at least.
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