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ok, but before it goes away, here's a summary of what made gayface break down last night:

1. gayface said growsonwalls lied. but modesty posts proof that gayface is the one lying, and is a hateful prick.

2. growsonwalls tells gayface to stop sending threatening pm's.

3. gayface proceeds to post a hundred huge eye-rolling faces in an effort to divert attention away from his being busted, and to make the whole thing unreadable.

4. this whole thread was created bc TC told gayface to do it.

5. gayface changed his avi last night bc TC told him to, and it's meant to show that he's her slave, bc he's just that sad and pathetic.

finishthemoff wrote:

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growsonwalls wrote:

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Let's all remember the first time we hated on GayFace. Personally, I don't remember mine, but I'm sure it was in sucks, and he said something illogical and stupid.

I remember my first time so clearly. It was when GayFace said Tom's daughter Meghan would be damaged for life because she got a cochlear implant and that she'd grow up hating herself and some other really stupid shit.

Stop making up shit, cunt.

Modesty wrote:

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finishthemoff wrote:

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The road has had its turns and has not always been easy. My first child, Meghan, contracted pneumococal meningitis at 18 months and was left profoundly deaf. I had lived a carefree life and now found myself looking into an abyss of despair. As
thankful as we were that she had survived, the reality that we now had a child, whose life would be a struggle to reach her full potential, was devastating. After more than two weeks we were able to take our little girl home from the hospital. It should have been a happy day, but the memory I carry is
that of my daughter crawling from toy to toy expecting them to make the sounds she associated with them.
Meghan pressed buttons, shook rattles, and pulled strings, only to look at me and indicate that the toy was broken. What was broken was our hearts. It seemed at the time that all our dreams for our daughter were lost. Our early research into deafness was not encouraging. While there is a
robust deaf community with its own language and culture, it was not our world, and we would be strangers in hers. Helen Keller said that her loss of hearing was worse than her loss of sight, because blindness
separates you from things, whereas deafness separates you from people.

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In other word, he does not want his daughter to be deaf, live a deaf lifestyle, and deeply ashamed with the possiblity of that she may grow up as a deaf person. His deepest shame is that his first daughter is
deaf.

I'm a bit impressed that he didn't use the word "hearing impaired."

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Those first weeks were a frantic search for information. Time was critical and decisions needed to be made. There was no clear path. The nature of the handicap and centuries of conflicting management has left the deaf community fractionalized. We found ourselves being helped by wonderful and well intentioned professionals who had opposing views on what was best for Meghan. Our search led us to an oral program run by Nassau B.O.C.E.S. It was here
that we were first exposed to the cochlear implant. The device consist of a unit that is surgically implanted behind the ear and an external unit which contains a microphone and processor which translate sound into electrical impulses that stimulate the auditory nerve. In 1997 the F.D.A. had only recently approved the device for children as young as Meghan. After visiting the B.O.C.E.S. preschool and meeting some of the children who were having success with the implant, our minds were made up. Meghan was implanted at the age of 20 months and then the long road of rehabilitation began. We pursued Auditory Verbal Therapy as the method to retrain Meghan in how to listen to develop speech and language. This method immerses the parent in the therapy and gives you the skill to make learning language a 24/7 task, and not something that is conducted only during a speech session.

We have been blessed that the result of the choices made, and the hard work put forth by so many people, has been miraculous. Meghan has been mainstreamed in our own school district since kindergarten, and is now
thriving in the third grade. Her life journey is just beginning and she has already overcome more than most of us will ever be up against. She is an extraordinary young girl and her possibilities are limitless.

Tom basically want his deaf daughter to live a hearing lifestyle by denying her deafness. He is putting his daughter at a great peril by making her believe that she is not deaf and that she is better than deaf people in general. Thus, she will not learn sign language, embrace deaf lifestyle and culture, and identify herself accordingly. Tom will not learn sign language for the sake of his daughter. It is his way and only his way. No middle ground.

I'm sorry to said this. He want a normal child and will not go an extra mile to meet her daughter's needs other than put an implant on her. To be fair, implant is not a cure-all for deafness. It works great for some deaf people while it had a minimal impact for some deaf people. In short, implant created false sense of security and hope.

Tom's research is flawed.

If Tom want to shut her daughter's deafness so throughly to make her believe that deafness is a disease. Mark my word, his daughter will hate herself for who she is.

lol

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Modesty wrote:

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ZippyDoDa wrote:

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Modesty wrote:

ohboy wrote:
i think gayface is trying to divert attention away from the fact that he was busted in a lie.

and probably this one too:

growsonwalls wrote:
Ok FTO I'll say it one more time: threatening me in PM with shit like saying you know where I work is just fucking creepy and what the fuck are you going to do anyway? Tell people that I post at a message board about reality tv?

I think you are right!

Me too. :)