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Finally! A thread that isn't a waste of time.

First, the phone is your friend. Sure, it's easier to talk in person, but the phone allows you to use your considerable charm to make this woman melt. She wants you. Trust me.

Normally, not calling a woman for a year would be suicide. But if you were in a relationship and not available, that's something woman understand. And even respect. So you've definitely got a shot. Look at it this way: If you call, there's a chance it turns into a date. If you don't call, it's an automatic "no!"

The problem with coming up with a specific idea for a call is just that we don't know enough about your talks to give you any specifics. Try to think of something that might have "reminded" you of her or made you think of her (besides her smokin' hot ass) -- something at work? a mutual acquaintance? her favorite movie/tv show/band? All you need it a pretense to call -- if she likes you, it won't matter, she'll just be happy you called. If she thinks you're a douchebag, that's not going to change either.

Keep the first call short. 10-15 minutes max, then say something like "I need to run. I'm meeting my sister (or someone else who is obviously not a date) for dinner, but maybe we should have lunch sometime?" If she agrees, you're in.

I wouldn't TRY to get her voicemail, but the reality is that you probably will get it. So before you call, you must have TWO alternative plans -- one if she answers, one if you get her voicemail. Keep the voicemail short -- "Hi, this is Vicc! Remember me from ____? Something just reminded me of you, so I thought I'd see how you were doing. Give me a call sometime. I'm at ________"

Women want you. Men want to be you. This poor woman has spent a whole year Vicconius-less, and only you can stop that.

Go get her, and make us proud, big guy!