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Good to see you again, NAA. I miss seeing you around.

I always have a mixed feeling about abortion issues because I was literally the only one in the class (high school) who supported the women's rights to choose, especially when one male student terrified me with the concept that it is women's duty to suffer (and moral obligation) to give birth even if it is a product of rape, a risk of death and etc, which made me in favor of women's rights to abortions. However, my views changed when I went to college. People freely used abortions as "Get Out of Jail Free" card far too often. I personhally know one guy deliberately dumped his then-girlfriend and send a shipment of money to "force" her to have an abortion against her wishes. He was never there to go through painful and emotional-stricken process even though he comes from affluent family and can support an unborn child. However, he choose to abort his (and then-girlfriend's) first child.

However, things changed given other society's more liberal approachs to abortions, so in a hindsight, it became the issue of accountability and acknowledgment that abortion is the worst shortcut to take unless notice otherwise.

It is not about Christian (or other religious/cultural values), but the matter of accepting and even embracing mistakes to blessing.

I will say this now that a family can survive without a nation, but a nation will never survive without family.

People who embrace abortion too readily scared me. I have yet meet a happily married person who came from large family who readily supports abortion.
































I would not have been the only child.