And it seemed to work out all right for you.
We eventually jackhammered each others poopers like cappyberras on crack and laughed about the whole thing.
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So one of your best friends admits to liking you for years. NOW WHAT?!
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Posts: 14408 (08/07/08 10:21 PM) super badass |
We eventually jackhammered each others poopers like cappyberras on crack and laughed about the whole thing. |
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Eurytol |
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Posts: 2528 (08/07/08 10:23 PM) Badass motherfucker-er
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I would have thought sloan to be a giggler, myself.
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Posts: 442 (08/07/08 10:23 PM) Registered user |
You really make gay love sound romantic, squashthebeef. Now I can't date ANYONE for at least a month.
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darlingal |
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Posts: 9728 (08/07/08 10:26 PM) Nobody reads me.
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Crepuscular wrote:Rumor has it, your best friend is available. I am sure he'd wait a month for you. |
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squashthebeef |
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Posts: 14409 (08/07/08 10:34 PM) super badass |
He's going to blame his disinterest on me, I can see it coming.
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Posts: 2291 (08/07/08 10:34 PM) |
Thats gotta be rough. It reminds me of this one time my senior year when this girl (Who was a good friend of mine) wrote me a long letter about how much she
liked me. It definetly took me off guard. I didnt know what to do. I had no attraction to her (or any girl for that matter) and ultimately I did an awful thing
and just stopped talking to her.
Looking back I think the best thing to do in this situation is just tell the truth. Yeah it may be hurtful but in the long run it will be worth it. |
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squashthebeef |
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Posts: 14411 (08/07/08 10:37 PM) super badass |
Fat chicks really like writing letters.
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Posts: 245 (08/07/08 10:38 PM) Thinks Jay Leno is funny
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Weird. I always thought you were female. And straight. And old.
I guess I picture most everyone like their avatar. |
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Phuz1 |
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Posts: 2554 (08/07/08 10:39 PM) Registered user |
So in your world, I'm a fluffy pink bunny? Kewl.
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Eurytol |
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Posts: 2530 (08/07/08 10:39 PM) Badass motherfucker-er
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I guess I picture most everyone like their avatar. Not too surprising, as you do seem to take everything rather literally. |
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Posts: 566 (08/07/08 10:49 PM) Registered User |
Tell him you don't want to risk messing up what you already have, that you think of him like a brother/cousin and it would feel incestual to try for
anything more intimate. Maybe even set him up with someone else you know. Don't drop him as a friend, though. Who knows, maybe in a few years, when
he's acquired a better sense of himself, you might change your mind.
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squashthebeef |
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Posts: 14412 (08/07/08 10:52 PM) super badass |
Spice that up with a dash of nut kicking and you've got yourself a winning recipe!
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Posts: 619 (08/07/08 10:54 PM) |
Squash's idea is straight and to the point. Some people need that.
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Loki |
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Posts: 15304 (08/07/08 10:56 PM) Monkey tamer |
WTF DID YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT FOR 6 HOURS???
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TexasBlues |
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Posts: 5245 (08/07/08 10:58 PM) Registered User |
Are you gay or straight? Because if you're straight, it's easy - tell him that you aren't into dudes. If you're gay, it's trickier -
I'd stick with telling him that you don't want to take a chance on messing up your friendship. Especially since he doesn't even seem to know which
gender he's attracted to.
I had a guy friend who decided that he liked me and was always hitting on me even though I was engaged and then married - it didn't bother me and I'd just ignore it when he hit on me, but it bugged my husband. Finally, I had to sit the guy down and explain that it was disrespectful to hit on a married woman and he backed off. But we weren't really that good of friends after that. |
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Crepuscular |
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Posts: 445 (08/07/08 11:00 PM) Registered user |
Everything, Loki, everything. He talked about how much his parents disliked gays and how he didn't think he could ever tell them. Of how hard it was to
live with them and not be able to be himself. How he had dated girls in high school and college and was scared of how they'd react when they found out
about him. How much he's liked me since we met, that he wants to be with me longterm, that he wants to "share his youth with me." Of how scared
he was that his friends wouldn't be accepting and that he might have trouble in the workplace. Of how he wants to dress differently and go to different
places and do different things. Of how he knows nothing of the gay scene and how to meet other gay people. Of his worries that he's wasted too much of his
younger years hiding in the closet and that he'll regret it when he's older. Basically, the entire coming out of the closet conversation. We were up
until 7:00 AM talking about it. I feigned complete tiredness to get out of answering his request for a relationship, but I've got to face that gun
tomorrow. How to bite the bullet is the question.
Sad thing is, he's INCREDIBLY attractive. Just not my type all around. |
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TexasBlues |
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Posts: 5247 (08/07/08 11:02 PM) Registered User |
Ok - so you're gay. Tell him that you don't want to mess up the friendship, but that you still want to be friends and that you'd love to help him
through this difficult time as a friend.
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Posts: 620 (08/07/08 11:03 PM) |
If you'd swatted his nuts 6 1/2 hours earlier think of all the sleep you would have gotten.
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Posts: 4542 (08/07/08 11:11 PM) Registered user |
Didn't read the thread, but the first thing I'd do is change my avatar. kthxchngavtar.
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