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StaredownSally	married mothers of OT	Lead	[-]
Posts: 454 (05/13/08 8:06 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	i need to know if i am overreacting. for mother's day i got a homemade cake (betty crocker), that he made with our small child, a dozen roses and a few pieces of art from said child (crayon/paper) very nice, the gifts from a little person. he enjoyed making the cake. but what the fuck, my LOVER obviously did his fucking shopping at the GROCERY STORE. no card from him, no gift, nothing. i cooked dinner and did the motherfucking dishes. should i be pissed or am i overreacting? discuss.
GoodNeighborgirl		#1	[-]
Posts: 16225 (05/13/08 8:09 PM) Fatty McBadmom Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	Do you think that said small child bought the cake mix and the roses?
IndifferentCow		#2	[-]
Posts: 1022 (05/13/08 8:10 PM) Huge apathy Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	I guess I'd be happy. At least he thought of you and tried. My husband (I hate him as I type) gave me a peck on the lips and said "happy moms day, you're not my mom so I'm not doing anything for you" I was a tad upset by this revelation of his.
Anne Boleyn		#3	[-]
Posts: 3421 (05/13/08 8:10 PM) A subnic, please Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	Why aren't you married?
itsakat		#4	[-]
Posts: 6873 (05/13/08 8:13 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	My flowers and cards come from the grocery store every year. I don't usually get a gift, though he always asks if I want something. I usually say no. Unless I go out and buy something for myself with his money and tell him later what he "got" me. Your husband may be of the "she's not my mother, she's my wife" school, which may explain the absence of a gift. He did, however, make you a cake, pay for roses, and supervise the kid's artwork. If you wanted someone else to cook and do the motherfucking dishes, you should probably start dropping hints now for next year. yes, you are overreacting.
merkyl		#5	[-]
Posts: 52883 (05/13/08 8:13 PM) Registered loser Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	Did you LOVER at least blow a load in your ass?
StaredownSally		#6	[-]
Posts: 455 (05/13/08 8:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	Do you think that said small child bought the cake mix and the roses? no, i do everything with small child. he only plays with him at home.
itsakat		#7	[-]
Posts: 6874 (05/13/08 8:19 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	silly merkyl, that would be the FATHER'S DAY present.
fluffyspectacular		#8	[-]
Posts: 71 (05/13/08 8:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	If you wanted someone else to cook and do the motherfucking dishes, you should probably start dropping hints now for next year. I'm not a married mom, but I agree with this. My boyfriend would never do the dishes left to his own devices, so I have to ask him to. And if he complains, I'm like, "Dude, I made your food AND baked you cookies." Maybe just mention it to him.
Anne Boleyn		#9	[-]
Posts: 3422 (05/13/08 8:19 PM) A subnic, please Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	I guess "it's the thought that counts" doesn't mean much to you materialistic types. And there was thought involved you self absorbed bitch.
StaredownSally		#10	[-]
Posts: 456 (05/13/08 8:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	well, i guess it may come across this way. i was ok with it until he jumped down my fucking throat tonight. it just got me thinking is all.
factoryhurl		#11	[-]
Posts: 2191 (05/13/08 8:25 PM) Registered user Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	It's a fucking Hallmark Day anyway, to spur people to buy shit. It sounds heartfelt to me. What were you expecting?
Beefcake		#12	[-]
Posts: 818 (05/13/08 8:27 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	There are two kinds of married men: 1. The clueless ones who think they're doing really good by buying flowers at the grocery store. These kind of guys just need some training. 2. The cynical ones who have given up on trying because they know their wife will bitch no matter what they do. These kind of guys need their wives to quit being such a frakking bitch.
StaredownSally		#13	[-]
Posts: 457 (05/13/08 8:27 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	what is your status factoryhurl?
pinkdolphin		#14	[-]
Posts: 6986 (05/13/08 8:29 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	We get each other what we are wanting. So there is not a wasted gift. I love the homemade cards and I still have the cherry necklace my son picked out for me when he was little. I wore it for a little while but will always keep it.
StaredownSally		#15	[-]
Posts: 458 (05/13/08 8:32 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	We get each other what we are wanting. Eggggggsactly. That is kind of what we have done before. I even said I wanted a little silky bathrobe.
NiceToAnimals		#16	[-]
Posts: 9732 (05/13/08 8:34 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	He made you the cake, bought you the flowers, helped your child and directed him while he did his art. So he did do something. Did he give you a kiss or a hug? Did he thank you for all you do?
StaredownSally		#17	[-]
Posts: 459 (05/13/08 8:35 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	no, and that is my problem. i think if he had done that it would not be an issue.
Angela in WI		#18	[-]
Posts: 22237 (05/13/08 8:37 PM) Registered User Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	well then I guess you better fly the coop
fluffyspectacular		#19	[-]
Posts: 73 (05/13/08 8:37 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	StaredownSally wrote: well, i guess it may come across this way. i was ok with it until he jumped down my fucking throat tonight. it just got me thinking is all. So are you more upset about him yelling at you, or him not celebrating it enough?
StaredownSally		#20	[-]
Posts: 460 (05/13/08 8:38 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Connection Block Invite	oooooh. advice from angela! ::::popcorn:::

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