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Can a couple who swings be good parents?

What the hell does one have to do with another?

I mean are bitches that hard up for strange dick?

There's a swing/sex club set up in a mansion up around these parts that I plan on visiting soon. And I don't get the impression that it's just a place to get strange dick or strange pussy. Some people find that, though they do have a special person in their life, monogomy doesn't suit them and they absolutely enjoy sex and wish to enjoy the company of decent people who are wired like they and their partners are.

Personally, I can't see myself having an open marriage or swinging once vows have been exchanged. But for single people with partners, whether you call 'em girl/boyfriends or fuck buddies or friends with benefits, I got no problem with it.

Any guy who did that would have been stupid to allow it to happen in the first place. I don't think I'm comfortable watching another guy nail a chick I'm with, even if I'm balls deep in his main squeeze. I just wanna go to the place and check it out. If I decide to participate in anything at all, its gonna start out with FFM, as long as the person I'm with is comfortable with that of course.

sounds like a reasoned, measured analysis

I suppose I could do it if I'd just met the gal. But even if it's a totally open relationship or if we're just fuck buddies, after a while a certain posessiveness starts to creep in. It's just the way I'm built. I can keep it under control and muted as long as she's banging other dudes while I'm not around and keeping the details to herself. "I'm busy tonight, but do you wanna hang out tomorrow?" But in person, I just don't think I'm comfortable with that. Maybe later, maybe not.

Then there's the whole issue of being naked in the same room as a guy who is fucking. Even if we've both got our own chicks and aren't facing each other, I would still find it a bit weird. Maybe one day, with very trusted friends, I could do a MMF with each of us on opposit ends, maybe not. But DP is completely out of the question. Just too much of teh ghey for me.

I'm currently dating two women, both of whom are open to the idea of brining in a female 3rd party. Figure they deserve well thought out and honest answers to such questions. I'm a gentleman.

I'm not sure I know exactly how to take that last comment. And given that I don't know your gender or orientation, I'll elect not to guess.