First, I used to be a huge Survivor fan, I came here a lot to laugh and goof off. I don't patrol many forums anymore but I am in a
weird situation and I remembered that there are a lot of educated and witty people here, despite most being assholes. I'll take a chance and see if someone
has something that will spark me on how to go about this, because I'm STUMPED.
Here's the thing.. Last weekend my fiance of a year and a half told me she was going to sleep. I knew better by the tone of her voice(She's told white lies before that were purely innocent, so I kind of can tell when she's lying sometimes). I went to her house and saw a silver truck outside. I never seen it before. I tried calling but her phone was off. I waited for her and the truck came back and dropped her off. A guy was driving. I confronted her and she got angry and insulted that I didn't trust her. She said it was her girlfriends(from work) boyfriend driving and her g/f was passed out in the backseat. I was mad, but trusted her because she's always been very honest and a conservative catholic. THEN a week later some guy approached me all sympathetic. Asked if I was dating Carmen, I said yes. he said she was over at his friends house drinking and had given the three of them blowjobs. I wanted to kill him. I went to her work, found a silver truck that resembled the one I saw that night, and it was a girl driving that was her friend, but I don't know if it was the same truck for sure..
I confronted the girl and she collaborated what my fiance said, but her story wasn't exact. The place they went that night was off. I had the feeling she was covering for her, but it might just be paranoia.. The guy said she had a dimple on her left *** cheek when I said he was full of ****. She doesn't, she has a mole there, was that what he meant? I haven't slept in two days the more I think of this the more my whole body shakes. My nerves are on edge. She's always been a real good girl and hates porn, strip clubs, etc. I don't know what to believe, and I don't know how to contact that guy again. What the hell should I do now? I feel guilty but angry if it's true.. I'm just completely baffled. The thought of anybody seeing her naked let alone multiple guys makes my skin crawl.. Oh and her excuse why she lied to me about going out was because she likes to mexican dance( I don't) and didn't want to hurt my feelings when she danced with her friends bf.
Am I paranoid? Is my gut instinct probably right? HOW do I find out for sure? She denies it vehemently and gets insulted when I approach her on it. I don't know whether to feel guilty or get infuriated. She's either manipulative as all hell, or is telling the truth.















