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One mean spider wrote:

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StarringAmy wrote:

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No I havn't, I've never had a baby boy (or girl). I too am sure no male would want to go through with that, and I couldn't tell the doctor to cut it off for that reason (awww so sad). I think it would be best to leave it up to the males on if they think it's a good idea or not. All babies have a dad, even if they arnt raised by their dad.. if the mom is close to the father than he can make the choice, if not she can talk to a male she trusts on if he thinks it's a good idea or not.

OK...given that Amy...most men in America are curcumcised...and the common belief is that if the dad is then the child should be...so in most cases the child IS circumcised. The dad doesn't want the boy to look any different than what is the norm to him (what daddy looks like) or American society. Second...after circumcision the head of the weenis is COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY RAW! Why anyone would let their child grow to an age where they might have it done while having ANY memory of it would be completely cruel.

I am talking about before the child is born and after the birth if we go through with it or not. If we don't go through with it and that boy turned into a man choses he wants that done to him, than he can get it done. I was't talking about when a child was grown to the age when they could remember it, that could scar them. The child can make the choice when he is old enough, not the father.