Home with her. He has said he has no intentions of touching the money should he win the show. He was going to give it to the grandkids and charity. The best charity is at home. He should be there to care for and comfort his wife. He says he misses and worries about her so much..then he should be home. I don't think his behavior, his actions or his cursing the HG's (especially using the "C" word on Keesha) have given any comfort to his wife. In fact, I would think the family is rather embarrassed by Jerry's actions on the show.