I think it was tasteless to Erik as well, not just to Jaime. It made him look like he had to a playa now that he was dating Jaime. But this is a private manner as well. Erik mentioned he was on Survivor because a) he probably forgot the cameras were around as he got used to them b) he got into the moment with being honest and opne with Jaime and c) he thought he could trust Jaime with this info, since he liked her so much. For Jeff to ask that question put his trust in the whole process fo being honest and open when he felt most comfortable doing so at a disrespectful position.