BAD NEWS for OT's working mommys!

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feeds@yuku.com (Ethan Dumont) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 08:42:46 GMT

Even about sex?

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feeds@yuku.com (TC) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 06:08:57 GMT

Lying, manipulating, how to punch hard enough to hurt an adult, pinching, extreme possessiveness of toys, sometimes emotional blackmail.

Oh fuck. I missed that. that shit's funny. I learned all that from my brothers before I was 3. but I knew when I could do it and when I could NOT do it. I don't think you can blame daycare for that. I think you've got a parent who has not parented.

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feeds@yuku.com (Ethan Dumont) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 06:07:45 GMT

Women who send their children to daycare are lower class. Real women stay home till their children are school age.

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feeds@yuku.com (Trixie Delight) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 06:05:41 GMT

I know there are those ridiculous types but I dunno, emotional blackmail and punching as learned behaviors? I think the sister just went thru the phone book and picked the daycares that started with ACME.

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feeds@yuku.com (TC) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:55:58 GMT

Trixie Delight wrote:

6 different providers in 2 years? Sounds like your sister went price shopping instead of looking for a decent facility.

My SIL has had that many in 3 1/2 years. It's not about price. It's about stupid mothers who see the provider as their competition and nitpick the smallest thing to make a huge drama over it. some women are just fucking stupid.

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feeds@yuku.com (Trixie Delight) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:48:47 GMT

6 different providers in 2 years? Sounds like your sister went price shopping instead of looking for a decent facility.

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feeds@yuku.com (TC) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:48:32 GMT

It depends on the daycare. If a child is in a small daycare with a director/operator who does not put up with any bullshit, and turns away children who already have bad habits, a child can learn other children's GOOD traits.

My daycare provider was way more strict than I am. More fun. But more strict too. And she booted all the little biters and brats.

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feeds@yuku.com (simmom2001) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:35:21 GMT

While this study does not seem "scientific" at all I think that the results are pretty accurate. Day care kids learn the worst behaviors the earliest from their peers. I have many friends and family who have their kids in day care 30 to 50 hours a week and at 3 do things that you would not expect a child that young to know. Lying, manipulating, how to punch hard enough to hurt an adult, pinching, extreme possessiveness of toys, sometimes emotional blackmail. I do feel sorry for kids...

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feeds@yuku.com (Pahrump Mania) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:49:06 GMT

"They scored higher on things like gets in lots of fights, cruelty, bullying, meanness, as well as talking too much, demands must be met immediately."

Did they study the kids or the moms?

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feeds@yuku.com (Dr Weems) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 00:36:00 GMT

All I know is research says that kids raised in daycare will END UP CRAZY!

Buncha Ted Bundy's coming in the future.....13 million or something.

SCARY!
:c (

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feeds@yuku.com (PhoofeGirl) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 17:23:28 GMT

Ummmm.....DUH?

Dr. Belsky said children who spent more than 30 hours a week in child care "are more demanding, more noncompliant, and they are more aggressive

My guess would be that since babies and toddlers are thrown into an environment where they have no one to defend them, they become more aggressive since no one cared enough to be there for them.

"Daycare is just institutionalizing your kid". IMO

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feeds@yuku.com (Dr Weems) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:22:52 GMT

Don't ask about his "uncle/half-brother"......it starts to get confusing.

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feeds@yuku.com (Angelica2003) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:22:20 GMT

Trixie Delight wrote:
Ted Bundy had a stay at home, socialite mother.

that he thought was his older sister until he was in high school.

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feeds@yuku.com (Dr Weems) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 15:14:49 GMT

I've never seen such studies and deny their conclusions.

The sun is the skin's enemy.....the dark basement is it's friend.

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feeds@yuku.com (frisbeehead) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:25:55 GMT

Studies also show that being locked in a basement gives you poor complexion.

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feeds@yuku.com (Dr Weems) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:22:20 GMT

That 1986 study sounds like it was 22 years ahead of it's time.

If only we could have known the truth of it back then.

It's like that movie "The Day After Tomorrow".
:c (

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feeds@yuku.com (Reverend Henry Kane) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:20:34 GMT

Trixie Delight wrote:
Ted Bundy had a stay at home, socialite mother.

Yes, and the judge who sentenced him to death indicated that he'd have hired him as a lawyer were it not for the killings.

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feeds@yuku.com (ninnie pearl) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:19:10 GMT

He added, "They scored higher on things like gets in lots of fights, cruelty, bullying, meanness, as well as talking too much, demands must be met immediately."

Remember when children was seen and not heard? What ever happened to those children? Did they agrow up to be the parents of the mouthy ones?

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feeds@yuku.com (Yuku Blows Goats) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:12:53 GMT

There's nothing amusing about evil children

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feeds@yuku.com (U91731) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:11:21 GMT

Visa Declined wrote:

By SHERYL GAY STOLBERG
New York Times, August 11, 2008

that name always makes me laugh.

You are quite easily amused.

BAD NEWS for OT's working mommys!

feeds@yuku.com (Dr Weems) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:01:48 GMT

Side-effects of Daycare

Link Found Between Behavioral Problems and Time in Child Care

By SHERYL GAY STOLBERG
New York Times, August 11, 2008

WASHINGTON, April 18 -- Researchers conducting the largest long-term study of child care in the United States said today that they had found that children who spend most of their time in child care are three times as likely to exhibit behavioral problems in kindergarten as those who...